Which would you rather your kid do?

You are an idiot. If you want to have sex with multiple people, that's up to you. But you have no right to tell anyone else what they should do. I'm 20 and a virgin, and my fiance is 22 and a virgin. We are both extremely happy with the choice we have made. I would hate to have to tell the man I love that I had just slept around with multiple partners, and that he wouldn't be my first.